I was thumbing though some old files and came across a little gem. It was an article from the May, 1999 issue of The Gatekeeper, Elisabeth Elliot’s monthly newsletter. The article, written by Elisabeth, and titled, “Motherhood: The Most Difficult and Rewarding Job” said this:
Mothers are always on call, expected to have all the answers and limitless energies. They’re supposed to do everything; it’s taken for granted. How can you be and do everything expected of you? What you need is an habitual sense of the presence of God. Think that Almighty God, who created the stars and keeps the seasons revolving in perfect rhythm, is there in your kitchen, in your bathroom, in the laundry room, in the grocery store. Mothers, be prepared for an arduous struggle. Your calling is impossible without prayer, the comfort and instruction of the Scriptures, and fellowship in your church.
If you’re feeling anxious, without peace, it just may be that you have not made time in your schedule for study in the Scriptures and prayer. It is essential, no matter what you have to forgo, no matter which people in the church you’re going to have to say no to, no matter how crowded your schedule may be at home, you must somehow, but the grace of God, make time to read your Bible and pray.
God knows you can’t always be thinking of Him. You have to put your mind on what you’re doing. You have to concentrate on that recipe. You have to study those homeschool geometry lessons that you forgot so many years ago. You have to concentrate on measuring out that medicine for the sick child or making up the grocery lists and menus for the next week. This means that you must concentrate in your quiet time as well. Then learn to turn back to God throughout the day.
Try looking up to the Lord with a hundred little looks of love during the day. Every now and then lift up your eyes, lift up your heart, and remember that Christ is in you. He dwells in you. He gives you the gift of grace. (Don’t forget grace – you need it! We need it every hour of every day, every minute of every hour.) Learn to pray while you’re peeling the carrots, driving the car or cleaning the house.
Remind yourself that the materials of your work and play and all of your daily life are hallowed by the presence of Christ, by the presence of His infinity in the midst of your finiteness. Remember that Christ is present even in the weak and the mean and the ugly. In Matthew 25:40 Jesus said, “Inasmuch as you have done it unto one of the least of these My brothers, you have done it for Me.”
Our thoughts and desires need to be more referred to Him, determined by Him. We need to ask for wisdom in mind, holiness in will, and a mind and a will made one with Christ. Living in his presence – in your kitchen and in your laundry room; loving, which means to will the good of another, not allowing any hardship or sacrifice to deter us from helping them; and looking for His best.
To this I say, Amen.